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by Tad James, M.S., Ph.D. Creator of Time Line Therapy
Techniques Copyright © 1998, 2003
Since the introduction of the Time Line Therapy® Techniques in 1988 in the book Time
Line Therapy and the Basis of Personality, there has been, not only excitement about the
techniques themselves, but also major interest by the psychotherapeutic community and a rather
rapid adoption of the process by people actively involved in seeing clients daily for various
reasons. In the last few years, it has become obvious that an individual's Time Line with all the
person's history -- his joys and fears, his happiness and sorrow, his loves and hates, his limiting
and empowering decisions -- is a major part of that person's personality. Over the last few years,
we found that, if we were able to intervene in a client's Time Line therapeutically, we were able
to assist the client to create seemingly miraculous changes in his life -- changes that extended
even to the deepest level of personality.
Models, such as Time Line Therapy®, are interesting devices. A model is a description or
simulation of how something works. In essence a model is a blueprint or a map. Like a map, a model
is not necessarily "true." It is just a representation of reality. So, we are not necessarily
looking for truth in our model, we are only attempting to offer a description of how a portion of
the human personality works. Like a map, it is only a description of the territory; and the value
of any map or a blueprint lies in the results that you can produce by using it. In retrospect, even
after 5 years, this model still seems to be a major discovery.
From the time of Aristotle to William James to Freud and Jung to Milton Erickson, M.D.,
people interested in Psychology have been searching for a way to adequately describe the human
experience of time. Time Line Therapy®, as a model, has the potential to not only make sense out of
our temporal experience, but also to change our understanding of how negative emotions and limiting
decisions affect us, as well as describing how to create a meaningful future for all time to come,
because with Time Line Therapy® we now understand the human temporal experience and can change the
basic elements that make up someone's history.
Since 1988, thousands of people have been affected by the techniques of Time Line
Therapy®. Hundreds of people have been trained in the techniques and use them daily. Thousands of
others have attended the Secret of Creating Your Future® seminars given all over the world, and
have seen dramatic changes in their lives. Today, there are institutes in
Europe , Canada,
Australia, Hong Kong, Brazil
and the United States authorized to teach the techniques of Time
Line Therapy®.
The Time Line Therapy® techniques are a relatively recent development. The idea of an
individual having a means of knowing the difference between memories of the past, and the future,
or having a "Time Line" is not. Aristotle was one of the first in our culture to mention the idea
of a "Time Line" in Physics IV, for the Greeks had a clear idea of temporality. Our having a Time
Line may be, at least in part, a result of the structure our language.
ARISTOTLE: "Western minds represent time as a straight line upon which
we stand with our gaze directed forward; before us we have the future and behind us the past. On
this line we can unequivocally define all tenses by means of points. The present is the point on
which we are standing , the future is found on some point in front of us, and in between lies the
exact future; behind us lies the perfect, still farther back the imperfect, and farther yet the
pluperfect. ... The Greek language also has corresponding verb-forms which can be delineated in
quite similar manner on a straight time-line. ... According to Aristotle, therefore, we must
represent time by the image of a line (more accurately: by the image of movement along a line),
either a circular line ... or a straight line." [Hebrew, pp 124-6]
WILLIAM JAMES: Time Line Therapy® has its roots in traditional
psychological thinking, and is based on earlier models, which preceded it. William James, in
Principles of Psychology, in 1890 says, "If the constitution of consciousness were that of a string
of bead-like sensations all separate ... we should be wholly incapable of acquiring experience. ...
Whether a highly developed practical life be possible under such conditions as these is more than
doubtful ..." He described the experience of time, "In short, the practically cognized present is
no knife- edge, but a saddle-back with a certain breadth of its own on which we sit perched and
from which we look in two directions in time. ... Date in time corresponds to direction in space.
... If we represent the actual time-stream of our thinking by an horizontal line, the thought of
the stream or of any segment of its length, past, present, or to come, might be figured in a
perpendicular raised upon the horizontal at a certain point." He says, "Some things we date simply
by tossing them into a past or future direction." And so, "memory gets strewn with dated things --
dated in the sense of being before or after each other. The date of a thing is a mere relation of
before or after the present thing or some past or future thing." [Principles, pp
396-413]
MILTON ERICKSON: Time Line Therapy® also has its roots in the work of
Milton Erickson, who until his death in 1980, was the world's foremost Hypnotherapist. Erickson,
almost single-handedly, brought hypnosis out of the closet, and made it possible for the American
medical and psychiatric community to accept it as a "legitimate form of treatment." In the early
1960's Erickson was using an hypnotic technique which, remarkably, was quite like Time Line
Therapy®.
"One hypnotic phenomenon can be used to induce another. The movie screen can be employed
as an uncovering technique. The patient looks at it, sees his past ... He can look at the screen,
lose his own identity, and observe various traumatic experiences that occurred in his own life
experience. ..." The client can look at his past and his future in a non-threatening way: "... the
patient saw himself at a later age; on another, at a still later age -- all the way from five years
of age on up to thirty-two. ... Then he was allowed to set up another screen where he could see
himself as he hoped to appear next year. Thus he was led to recognize what he wanted in his future,
what was meaningful for him in that future. ... That technique has been called pseudo- orientation
into the future. Just as one can orient a patient back to the past, so one can project himself into
the future in accordance with his own motivations and ... desires."
YOUR TIME LINE: Who are you if not your collection of memories? For
almost 100 years, psychologists have agreed that our past experiences do determine who we are, and
how we act. (Although the examination of memories has, in the last decade or two, fallen into
disfavor among psychologists because they did have a reliable technique to affect the memories.)
Memories are recorded and stored as we age and with time they have more and more influence on us.
Our Time Line is the index to the memory encoding of the unconscious mind, and it is usually wholly
unconscious.
THE UNCONSCIOUS
MIND: In the
context of Time Line Therapy®, the words "unconscious mind" are not intended to signify anything
mysterious or unusual, simply the part of your mind of which you are not conscious, right now. Your
unconscious mind is a very important part of you. Think about it for just a moment. Here is a part
of you that runs your body; it makes your heart beat, causes the lymph system to circulate, your
breathing to continue, your eyes to blink, your stomach to digest your food, and many other tasks
that perhaps you had never even considered.
The first thing to appreciate is that your unconscious mind is the source of all learning,
all behavior and all change. Let us look at each one of these individually:
LEARNING: Your unconscious mind is the part of you that learns, not
your conscious mind. Now, you may have thought that you learned consciously in the past, and
although your learning has to go through the conscious mind, it is your unconscious mind that
remembers everything. Everything, once learned, resides in the unconscious mind.
Think about all the things you have ever learned. Until the subject was mentioned, how
many of them did you remember consciously? Probably none! If you had to remember all the phone
numbers you know consciously, there wouldn't be enough room for anything else, would there? So all
learning takes place at the unconscious level.
Think of all the phone numbers you have learned, and which you now know. For example, you
know your home phone number, do you not? If you'd like to do this with me, please say it to
yourself. Now before you were thinking of your home phone number, where was it? Obviously it was
stored somewhere, of which you were not conscious -- that is your unconscious mind -- the part of
your mind of which you are not conscious, right now. What's important about that is that all your
learning -- everything you have ever learned -- is stored in your unconscious mind.
BEHAVIOR: I was approached by a student at one of the hypnosis
seminars I teach; He asked, "Can you make me move my arm unconsciously?" I asked the student if he
had ever considered that he can't move his hand consciously. I said, "Do you know how many muscles
there are between the tip of your fingers and your shoulder blade? There are 159 muscles. So, you
couldn't move your hand consciously. You have to move it unconsciously. It's not just your hand,
either -- all behavior is generated at the unconscious level. Think about walking. You just put one
foot in front of the other, don't you? When you do, however, you don't think about it. You just do
it. In fact if you think about walking, that thinking can be counter-productive. Thinking about
walking is conscious thinking. The fact that it interferes with walking shows us that the behavior
is generated unconsciously.
How about this, the last time you drove to work, how conscious of it were you? Do you
remember the whole trip? Or do you remember none of it? If you want a real scare just look over at
the person next to you on the freeway, the next time you drive somewhere. They too are probably
unconscious.
One more example. You get on an elevator, punch a button (say 8) and the doors close. Your
eyes go up, and you watch the floor numbers: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 ... 6, and the doors open, and the
person next to you gets out, and you follow. "Is this the 8th floor." I do that all the time, I
must admit.
CHANGE: Think of a bad habit you wanted to change in the past. Was it
easy? Probably not. Most people find it hard to change a bad habit. For them it's something that
takes time. I remember in the 60's when sideburns were long, and I used to play with mine all the
time, and one day I said I'm not going to do that any more! But, you know, five minutes, and there
I was again, playing with them.
If change was that easy, you could walk up to a friend who was being a bit of a jerk and
say, "Um, excuse me, but you're being a bit of a jerk! Would you please change?" And they would
change. Right then -- if change was conscious! In the real world, change isn't always that easy.
Many people go on doing the same old things over and over, year after year and they complain about
it. If change isn't that easy for us, it is simply because we aren't fully in rapport with our
unconscious mind. In the real world people are often not in rapport with the unconscious mind, and
that is why change isn't that easy for them.
Your unconscious mind would really like to be in rapport with your conscious mind. In fact
your unconscious mind yearns for rapport, and looks up to your conscious mind like a 5 or 6 or 7
year old brother or sister might look up to you. It wants your direction and support, and it would
like to; do what you asked if it only knew how. If you are not feeling like there is rapport
between your conscious and unconscious mind, it may be because you were giving confusing messages
to the conscious mind.
Let us look at this idea a little further: Your unconscious mind cannot process a negative
in consciousness. It's true. In fact, it's also true for the conscious mind as well. Think about
this. You cannot think about what you wish to not think about without thinking about it. Think
about that. For example, if I said, "Don't think about a blue tree," what are you thinking about.
unless you were semantically trained, you are probably thinking about a blue tree. Even though I
asked you not to!!
Most of us go through our lives telling ourselves, "I don't want to think about a blue
tree. When you go in to see the boss, do you say, "I hope he doesn't get angry like the last
time."? Or when starting out in a new relationship, do you say, "Gee, I hope I don't get hurt."? Or
how about a salesperson going in to make a sale and saying, "I hope I don't blow this
sale."?
Do you do that? If you do, it may be the wrong signal to be giving to your unconscious
mind. If it is the wrong signal, it is because the unconscious mind cannot process a negative in
consciousness. So, to facilitate communication between the conscious and the unconscious minds let
us find out a little more about this part of us which is so important, and of which we are so
little aware -- the unconscious
mind.
Your Time Line is how your unconscious mind encodes and stores your memories. It's how
you know the difference between a past memory, and a future dream? Your Time Line is largely an
unconscious process, and like remembering your home phone number, you may be more or less aware
of it from time to time.
With the Time Line Therapy® techniques, we now have for the first time, a way to resolve
significant events in a person's past, which is in alignment with how the unconscious mind already
operates. We also gain the ability to release the negative emotions in those memories easily and
quickly, or at least in a reasonable amount of time. Obviously, the release of negative emotions in
a substantial number of a person's memories will have an impact on their behavior. Stop, and think
about it for a moment, what would be the impact on you, if we had released all of the anger in your
past memories, while preserving the learnings from those events. Or how about the sadness, fear,
guilt or any other negative emotion.
Next, what if you could go back and re-do any old decision that you made in the past, and
decide in a new way -- a way that supported who you want to be now? Then, what if we could have
every event in the past be reevaluated in such a way as to support the way you wanted to be now?
With Time Line Therapy®, we also have the ability to reevaluate our past, and change any decision
which limits us. To a certain extent our behavior is guided by the decisions that we've made in the
past. Whether conscious or unconscious, these decisions affect our behavior in the present. Our
decisions are stored in the Time Line, and through our Time Line we gain access to them.
Finally, what if you had a reliable way to create your future the way you wanted it, and
actually have that thing or event happen? The processes for creating your future are as powerful as
the processes for releasing negative emotions, and clearing out limiting decisions.
These three techniques comprise the major techniques of Time Line Therapy® as it is taught
today, which we herewith present to you for your consideration. In using these techniques, you are
accepting the role of a pioneer in the freeing of the human spirit from the bonds of the negative
emotions and limiting decisions, and showing people how to create their futures.
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