Hypnosis has been given many definitions over the years,
and many authors have debated whether it even exists. These
debates and definitions themselves are evidence of what I
consider to be the most basic and profound form of
hypnosis. My definition identifies the discursive thinking
mind (what most of us identify with as our ordinary sense
of self) as an ongoing hypnotic process. From this
perspective, the ordinary conscious mind contains all the
process elements of what traditionally have been called
"trance phenomena." And although the conscious mind
approximates reality and makes its constructs seem
workable, the mind itself is never accurately in touch with
reality. More and more people are now beginning to
subscribe to this view, as quantum physics continues to
bear out scientific evidence that the nature of reality as
described by spiritual masters throughout the ages is not
merely metaphor, but actual truth. In fact, this approach
to hypnotherapy could as appropriately be called "quantum
hypnotherapy" as well as "transpersonal hypnotherapy."
The transpersonal definition of
hypnotherapy assumes that: 1) We are not who we "think" we
are. Who we think we are is our deepest trance state
(actually a "bundle" of trance states). 2) To the degree
that our awareness is absorbed in and identified with our
thoughts, we are in a hypnotic state--a defined state
rather than a spontaneous, "real" state, an "awake" state.
3) All communication, both intrapersonal and interpersonal,
to the degree that it is a sharing of thoughts about
reality rather than a direct experience of reality, is a
sharing of hypnotic states, "dream" states, even deluded
states.
The Hypnotic Trance of Self
Not being who we think we are is the root of our
dilemmas. (Or, more accurately, believing that we are who
we think we are, and not noticing that we are not, is the
root.) We are selectively attending* to our ideas about
ourselves in order to make choices* which define and
determine our lives. If the root idea of who we are is a
mistake, then our whole accustomed process of strategizing
to improve our lives is a "mishap" having varying degrees
of painful and pleasurable consequences.
The most profound aspects of the hypnotic trance of self
(or the bundle of trances of self) are established in
childhood prior to our development of a discriminating
perspective. As children, we accepted the overwhelming
vividness and prestige, good and/or bad, of the stimuli and
messages acting upon us as "truth." Learning to identify
our sensory functions and our bodily delineation happens
quite naturally, but extending that to the healthy
expression of our mind/body in interpersonal relationships
is rare. The degree to which our first relationships were
unhealthy, i.e.. shaming, confusing, or threatening,
determines how profoundly we develop the trance of false,
hypnotic self. This trance of self refers to a fixed idea
of a rigidly defined self, rather than the spontaneous
sense of wellbeing of a self that flows on effortlessly
through changes, one that does not need ideas to help it
remember who it is. In other words, when you are fully
involved in being who you are, you don't waste time keeping
track of who you are. It isn't necessary to do this if
there is no sense of shame or threat to ward off. And the
de-hypnotized, free-flowing self--not perceiving anything
as separate--is simply blissfully existent and awake,
without a need to ward off anything that comes its way.
The hypnotic self is a powerful set of trance phenomena.
Growing up from infancy to early adulthood means being in
the cultural and familial hypnotist's arena 24 hours a day!
Everyone is hypnotizing you--telling you what everything
means, telling you what you are, and what your actions mean
regarding your worthiness--by delivering suggestions to you
with repetition and emotional force.* Children learn by
modeling; they are master mimics. Thus begins the process
of self-hypnosis (or self-talk, if you like). Have you ever
had the opportunity to eavesdrop on a young child playing
with toys while he is repeating the judgments he has heard
about himself in an innocent, singsong voice? We master
these skills of hypnosis very early in life. In this way we
quickly develop the veils of perception--we are no longer
able to see a tree, hear a bird, taste a hamburger, or
experience anything (including ourselves) simply and
directly, without a running commentary going on inside. The
stimulus of a tree, a bird, or a hamburger, or the
spontaneous movement of our own mind, body or emotion,
triggers an instantaneous, uninterrupted barrage of
associations, judgments, and memories, filling our mind
with sights, sounds, and sensations.
This onslaught of associated responses refers to the
past and projects into the future with such speed and force
that, not only do we not notice we have missed the
experience of the tree (its mounds of soft leaves, its
mottled trunk, its gnarled mass of roots sinking deep into
the earth who knows how deeply) but we also don't notice
that we have been distracted from seeing the tree. We are
anesthetized to the pain of our severed relationship to the
tree.
How many of us are already habitually numbed to the pain
of being disconnected from the natural world? Does it seem
a strange notion that it could be painful not to really see
and experience a tree that was right in our midst?
Distraction by association, forgetfulness, spontaneous
anesthesia, positive hallucination (seeing something that
isn't there), negative hallucination (not seeing something
that is there), time distortion and time displacement,
spontaneous regression--all these are signs and qualities
that traditionally indicate a deep state of hypnosis, And
yet all of these take place in our ordinary waking
consciousness.
We will examine the signs and qualities of hypnotic
depth from the traditional standpoint, and then explore how
they blend into what is usually considered the non-hypnotic
or "conscious" state. In this way we will begin to
understand why it has become so difficult for us simply to
see a tree.
Therapeutic Hypnosis Defined
Conscious, subconscious, unconscious: these concepts
pervade our culture, and we freely use them in talking
about ourselves. To the degree that we do this without
having contemplated the meaning of these terms in the
context of personal experience, or to the degree that we
haven't determined the usefulness of labeling various kinds
of experience with these terms, we really don't know what
we are talking about. We are merely engaged in hypnotizing
ourselves by the very familiar process of sloganeering.
For example, the political slogan, "America! Home of the
free!" has no specific, universal meaning, but can trigger
strong emotional responses of varying kinds depending on
the audience. Likewise, a phrase such as, "I know this
problem is in my subconscious but I can't get at it," gives
a person a false sense of knowledge that is really a state
of confusion (i.e.., a hypnotic state). The idea itself
creates the dilemma. Here's one we all can identify with:
"I know that intellectually, but I can't stop...". The
phrase, "I know intellectually," is one of the most common
supports of ongoing trance. Its most important
characteristic is that it short-circuits the possibility of
accessing or maintaining an awake state of openness, while
affording a bit of comfort in seemingly knowing something.
What "I know intellectually" usually means is not that we
know something at all. (Knowing it would meaning that it is
alive within us, an actively available resource capable of
facilitating change.) Rather, saying "I know it
intellectually" indicates nothing more than our ability to
pronounce the words, saying them over and over in our head
like a lullaby, with little or no effect on our
awareness.
I point this out in order to alert you, especially while
you are a student, not to settle for this false kind of
"learning." It is what most of us are conditioned
(hypnotized) to do. Bearing that in mind, here are a few of
the definitions that successful, highly recognized
hypnotists have applied to hypnosis:
"Hypnosis is the use of suggestion, whether direct or
indirect, to induce a heightened state of suggestibility in
which there is bypass of the critical faculty of the mind,
and selective attention to suggestions given." --Dave
Elman
"Hypnosis is a state of awareness dominated by the
subconscious mind." -- Michael Preston, M.D.
"Hypnosis is a 'shrinking of the focus of attention.'"
-- Milton Erickson
Can any useful sense be made of these statements? What
is "the use of suggestion...to heighten suggestion"? What
is "the bypass of the critical faculty"? And how can "a
state of awareness" be "dominated by the subconscious
mind"? What are these expert hypnotists attempting to
describe? Can you relate the terms they are using to your
personal experience? First, it is helpful to recognize that
such labeling, which we have all been trained (hypnotized)
to do, dissociates us from the experience we are labeling
and creates subtle and not-so-subtle limitations.
It is important to note the difference between labeling,
which diminishes interest and awareness in ongoing
phenomena, and descriptive activity, which keeps us engaged
with the phenomena. When descriptive interest is reduced to
labeling, something alive and vital is lost in the process.
The ability to label is, nevertheless, valuable when used
appropriately. Labeling is inappropriate in the learning
process when it does no more than satisfy the urge to say,
"I know that intellectually." Because no sooner do we say
it, than we have put ourselves into trance, and are living
in the box created by our words.
We all do it. In fact, this tendency lies at the root of
all our worldly difficulties, personal and political,
social and cultural. For once we have created a label, a
conceptual box we can hold onto, we will grasp it and
defend it, even in the face of irrefutable evidence to the
contrary. It is easy to observe this everyday phenomenon in
the prejudices and politics of our times, but have you ever
thought about some of your own problems from this point of
view? Take a moment now to remember being in the grip of
some personal limitation--one of those times when you acted
and felt like a helpless two-year-old, despite the truth of
your
six-foot-two-hundred-pound-body-having-taken-care-of-yourself-daily-for-years
experience.
That's hypnosis!
The phenomena these men are trying to describe as
hypnosis are marked by the same qualities that pervade our
conscious functioning. There is no clear distinction
between the two. Even the "critical faculty" is actually a
trance conditioned function. From this perspective, it is
not so important to create a neat label to apply to the
phenomena, because that so easily leads to a lazy, and
false, sense of knowledge.
It is more challenging, and more helpful to the client,
to develop and access more resourceful trance states that
expand the client's awareness of choice and power--to the
point that, ultimately, she comes into an awareness that is
beyond trance states altogether.
Buddhism calls this the state of No-Mind. In all trance
states, the thinking mind is busy labeling and defining
reality, whereas the No-Mind state allows the direct
perception of reality without conceptual mediation. (That's
a euphemism for "distortion and interference.") No-Mind is
a state in which the heart/mind and the head/mind functions
merge, releasing one's true, clear intelligence. The mark
of this union is one's reliance on the spontaneous guidance
of intuition, direct perception and recognition of identity
between subject and object. This intuition of identity
engenders an unwavering sense of spaciousness, luminosity,
and love. It manifests in a person as the revived capacity
to be moved by the beauty of a flower, to see the focus,
love, and attention of the whole universe in the movement
of a fly's wings, and to care for the life of all beings as
one's own life.
I define therapeutic hypnosis as taking hold of the
mental functions we use every day to contract our focus and
numb our sense of being (or to maintain the status quo of
an already acceptable contracted state) and using those
same functions to expand our awareness of being organically
alive. Therapeutic hypnosis releases this mental
contraction, the nature of which is fear, into an
expansiveness, the nature of which is love. As with natural
medicine, we distill the very poison that causes an illness
in such a way that we produce its antidote.
Using this as our working definition of hypnotherapy,
there is no real or solid boundary between the conscious
and the unconscious to get in the way. No borderline exists
to stop our own mental processes, skillfully used, from
destroying the hypnotic state that keeps us boxed up in the
world of our words, that prevents us from truly seeing the
tree. If one understands this definition of therapeutic
hypnosis, not as a label, but as a phenomenon being
displayed by the mind, it becomes very delightful to do
hypnotherapy. We do not have to be concerned about who can
be hypnotized and who cannot be hypnotized. We need only
develop the sensory acuity to notice how each person does
it to themselves, how we do it to ourselves, and then make
the kinds of adjustments that this course intends to
teach.
To do this kind of work, we as therapists must place
primary emphasis on our own daily practice. We must
cultivate greater and greater awareness of our own habitual
states, of when these states are triggered and what
triggers them. And we must notice these states in ourselves
with a growing capacity for spacious, kind-hearted
acceptance of their presence. Our daily practice must
include some form of body mind coordination through
physical activity. It must also include a meditation or
contemplation practice, to develop the capacity to detach
from the hypnotic turmoil of subconscious thoughts and
feelings--the constant "internal gossip" that we all
generally accept as a given and therefore rarely challenge
in ourselves.